00:00:00: Welcome back to new episode of sweet but salty, the bliss point of podcasts.

00:00:08: In today's episode we're actually continuing last week's topic which was when I talked about my new song Queen Of Hearts.

00:00:18: And Queen of Hearts is an empowering song that talks about the idea of ruling The Dating Game and winning somebody else's heart, so because you're the queen of hearts obviously from my perspective.

00:00:30: It's not necessarily super true like I have had my dating setbacks as well.

00:00:36: I know what it's like to be heartbroken, but... It's fun to experiment with this different perspective if you know what i mean.

00:00:43: So If You haven't checked out, you can definitely stream at everywhere!

00:00:47: And really hope that you enjoy it.

00:00:49: so today we're actually continuing the train of thought because in order successfully date someone, but also to be successful in life and whatever success means to you that's completely upto your definition of it.

00:01:08: But let's say you want to achieve a certain goal and in order to achieve that goal, You need to know two things.

00:01:14: You need To Know Your Value And You Need To Know your values.

00:01:18: So I think dating is A really good example where we can look at those Two topics quite easily.

00:01:25: so let's just take Dating as an Example The first thing you need to Know is your value, so that means you're self-worth needs to be up.

00:01:36: And I think it was a couple of days ago when i saw a really good insta story or reel where a woman talked about the fact it's not like you don't have any self-worth, its just masked and maybe it is not visible or accessible.

00:01:58: The feeling that when you feel worthy of love, success, affection the feeling is kind of blocked from your experience.

00:02:07: so your worth is something that is always there.

00:02:11: and i think that's a really beautiful thought because we often doubt our own worth, or own value at least the people that are close to me including myself are prone to judging themselves very harshly and doubting their own self-worth.

00:02:28: so I think if we know our value...if we know that we're loved and we're worthy of love, and we are worthy of affection... ...and success.

00:02:40: And anything that we desire- We show up differently!

00:02:45: To link this back to dating I think it becomes very visible.

00:02:50: if someone knows what they're worth They will not tolerate certain behaviors from other people.

00:02:56: That is actually very healthy.

00:02:58: i have been prone to tolerating certain behaviors that didn't align with me and that a person with a connection to their self-worth probably wouldn't have allowed it happen.

00:03:09: Looking back, I think all of this shaped me...and made who i am!

00:03:15: And..I'm grateful for the lessons.

00:03:17: however....that doesn't mean I didn't suffer in the moment.

00:03:21: so..... You can learn from everything, but sometimes it's better if you don't have to go through everything.

00:03:27: And I think the point of not tolerating certain behaviors is also very much linked to your own values.

00:03:33: so If you know what YOU are worth...you ALSO KNOW WHAT YOU STAND FOR and which values you want to embody in your life!

00:03:43: One for me is loyalty honesty, you know trustworthiness stuff like that where the other person is really reliable and You can definitely Trust that they will behave in a way.

00:03:57: That it's appropriate And in a ways that meets your needs so to say and that need being A Need for Honesty Loyalty Authenticity Just basic human respect.

00:04:13: So I think that knowing your value and your values makes you almost invincible, to be honest.

00:04:21: Because i think a lot of people struggle with one or both those things... And if you know what you expect from other people & yourself so If You Know Your Values.. AND YOU KNOW THAT YOU ARE ABSOLUTELY WORTHY OF ANYTHING AND EVERYTHING YOU DESIRE!

00:04:41: you can show up very differently and in a very self-confident way, And I definitely want to embody those things myself.

00:04:57: Work more on feeling self worthy Feeling valuable and expressing my values that i have To the outside world people to a certain standard, especially in dating.

00:05:12: So I really hope that this episode made sense and the connection between your value and values became clear!